| Location | Sheerness |
| Age | 47 years |
| Cause of Death | Other Disease |
| Date of Birth | 28/02/1962 |
| Date of Death | 21/08/2009 |
| Visitors | 481 since 20/11/2009 |
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This is for my husband Ian White aka Chalky, who lost his brave battle with Motor Neurone Desease a few months ago after 11 years fighting it . He was a loving, caring , husband and Dad and our lives will never be the same without him in it. He had a wicked sense of humour and always made out he was hard but he was`nt he was a complete softy. We looked after him at home because that is where he wanted to be and that is where he stayed untill his last day.He was my love my life and my soulmate and noone could replace him. He loved music especially Queen , but he liked all kinds, he always had motorbikes before he got ill and was into loads of other hobbies such as archeology, looking at stars and the moon, football and many other interests.He fought this desease with humour and bravery and very rarely moaned. We have lost the most precious person in our lives and we miss him so much today and everyday.
Miss you loads xxxxx
Just need to tell you how much I miss you :( found it so hard this sat week don't know why , can't say it's easy anytime but just feel really low and wish I could talk to you for just one more time , amellia is really funny now such a little character I love her to bits she's my little pickle I just wish you could see her . Lifes just not fair is it why can't you be here with us and then everything would be ok , I don't think I have really come to terms without you being here everyone says it gets easier but it doesn't , it gets harder it's just another day without you and I don't see how that is easier I can't seem to sort myself out but I will :) I will give amelia a big kiss and cuddle from you , o love you baby with all my heart and soul and I miss you every second of the day love always Sharon xxxxxxxx
happy Christmas baby xxxxxxx
Its nearly Christmas just getting everything ready now but there's a big thing missing ,you ,I have to keep going because I know that's what you wanted me to do , Amelia is walking properly now she gets everywhere you would love it I can just hear you now don't touch that it's grandads but you would let her get away with murder :) she makes everyday worthwhile, I always tell her about you and she will always know that even though you are not here you will always be her grandad and you love her to the moon and back . I so miss you today and everyday and remember our Christmases all together they were great and I will never forget , I love you baby so much and miss you always happy Christmas love you love you love you always and forever Sharon xxxxxxxxxx
Just need you here xxx
really need a cuddle right now from you , love you with all my heart and soul and miss you every second of everyday , our granddaughter is nearly walking now, so wish you could be here she knows who you are we say to her where's grandad and she looks straight up to your photo :) she calls you un cat :) don't know why bless her she must know . When she is old enough I am going to tell her all about you and how much you would love her and how you are the best grandad she could have, even though she can't see you I want her to know what a fantastic grandad you would have been to her , love you baby with all my heart and soul and miss you even more sleep tight love you love you love you xxxxxxxxxx
Love you forever xxxx
It's been 2 years now without you but it seems like. Yesterday , I miss you with all my heart and soul every second of each day , I try. So hard to be ok but inside it hurts so much without you here I love you baby and always will sleep tight my love until we meet again love and miss you always and forever xxxxxxx
Miss you so much xxxxx
just need to tell you how much I miss you :( we had our granddaughter christened on Sunday 31st July I so wish you had been there just wasn't the same , she looked gorgeous . I am going to tell her all about you how special you are and even though she can't see you I will make sure she knows how much you love her. I miss you so much chalk it doesn't get any easier the pain is still there I wish I could say that it has faded a little but it hasn't:(. but I know I will keep on going with a smile on my face just like you used too but you was with us then now it's harder , I love you with all my heart and soul and miss you every second of the day till we meet again baby goodnight love you xxxxxxxxxx
Miss you so much xxxxx
just need to tell you how much I miss you :( we had our granddaughter christened on Sunday 31st July I so wish you had been there just wasn't the same , she looked gorgeous . I am going to tell her all about you how special you are and even though she can't see you I will make sure she knows how much you love her. I miss you so much chalk it doesn't get any easier the pain is still there I wish I could say that it has faded a little but it hasn't:(. but I know I will keep on going with a smile on my face just like you used too but you was with us then now it's harder , I love you with all my heart and soul and miss you every second of the day till we meet again baby goodnight love you xxxxxxxxxx
just wanted to tell you how much I miss you each and everyday, we have got a new great nephew Alfie he is lovely I cut his cord hopefully he will have "chalky" as his middle name so that will be lovely . I miss you more each day and need to hear your voice just one more time and to tell you I love you with my heart and soul always sleep tight my baby love always sharon xxxxxxxx
Love and miss you every minute of the day xxxx
Just wanted to say how much i miss you every minute of the day , it's been so hard over the past few days don't know why just seems worse , can't seem to get through the day without thinking of something we used to do or you saying things I miss that so much at times it's unbearable I just need to hear your voice or see you one more time but I know I can't so until we meet again baby I will keep you in my heart forever and always love you Sharon xxxxx
just wanted to say how much i love and miss you xx
i miss you so much its so horrible without you , everything i do just doesnt feel right without you :(wish you was still here so much , i just want to hear your voice one more time and tell you how much i love you and always will , i hate the sun now because it makes me want to share each day with you because you loved it what am i going to do without you its been so hard and doesnt get easier i love you baby with all my heart and miss you forever xxxxxxxxx
love you always xx
just wanted to say that i miss you so much each and everyday, i thought it was suposed to get easier :( but it doesnt, i have found it so hard over the last few days, but try and stay ok for everyone , i cant even explain how it feels its so hard without you , everything is not the same and i have this unbearable pain that just wont go away, dont know how to deal with it ,cus you always was there to help me, now your not , im so lost without you by my side, i just need to touch you and smell you and tell you things , why did you have to go its not fair, there was so much more to do, i dont want to do it on my own, i miss you baby so much and i will love you forever always xxxxxxxxx

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